Hot & Bothered

Oh, Chase, I can relate. My energy in the heat and humidity we are experiencing looks a bit like your posture. (Find my heat-dwelling story on page 113 in my book.)

That said, I moved a few feet out from under my ceiling fan to tackle a couple of cupboards. There’s nothing like a clean junk drawer to revive spirits.

In my under-fan dwelling, I came across a new to me author. In her book, I read words that are cause for alarm. Simply put, when it comes to screens and algorithms, I don’t know what I don’t know. It was eye-opening. The author has been hosted on the Today Show and featured in many popular arenas. She has made a living in the technology world. Her words carry great weight.

And it’s downright scary. Our children in society are growing up without the magic of childhood. We can bury our heads in the sand and pretend it is all so normal, or we can draw a line in the sand.

There is a lot to think about in this day of technology. My phone holds my banking, Bible study materials, recipe box, writing tools, and fitness tracking. Just yesterday, I ordered a 9-year-old’s birthday gift. And likely, you are reading my words on your phone.

I’ve been a positive thinker about my use of technology, but even I admit to a more head-down position than is necessary. I try to keep my phone out of reach when in the company of others—at least, that is my intention. To me, it is a lack of good manners to be in company with others while engrossed in screens.

Whew! Too strong? I am determined to do better. As we watch the obsession with smartphones and social media climb, the toxic culture is eroding the family unit all around us. Perhaps it is happening even in our own living rooms.

There has always been a pull from what is truly important. It just happens that the distraction of 2024 is attractive, fits in our pockets, and is more powerful and addictive than we ever want to believe. 

Sometimes, a reset is needed. Digital awareness. Being honest.

I hear a Jesus-whisper: The days run so quickly away. Do not give over-allegiance to the bright small hand-held screen. A timer is set in eternity.

My thoughts tumble around me. I can’t figure it all out, but I’m willing to give it space. It all matters so much.

Today, I’m grateful for cooling fans, a meatloaf made early this morning before the heat descends, and pretty flowers captured by Sidney, my 10-year-old grand. And red tomatoes.

September is in sight. I can almost imagine a faint breeze of crisp air.

Stepping with you, Margi

7 responses to “Hot & Bothered”

  1. smzomar Avatar
    smzomar

    I TOTALLY agree with your thoughts on technology. Technology changes our lives, in many ways for the better, but in some ways it is very harmful, I think

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  2. Margi Avatar

    Thanks for weighing in on the topic. I think we can all agree, it’s a difficult one, right?

    Blessings on your dayšŸ’—

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  3. mdmayo484890d7f0 Avatar
    mdmayo484890d7f0

    So true…great reminder!

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  4. rayn0000 Avatar
    rayn0000

    This might be worse but it isn’t new. Family time around the TV kept families from talking and playing together.

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    1. Margi Avatar

      So very true! Thanks for chiming inšŸ’—

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  5. hoynepricilla1997 Avatar

    wow!! 58A Season of Import

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